Friday, September 16, 2011
Time: The Critical Investment Every Father Needs to Make #1: Know Your Past
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
So Why Am I Writing about Fathers Raising Sons in a Healthy Way, And Why Do I Think I Have Anything to Say?
Within the last month I experienced two special retreats. One weekend, I was the Spiritual Director on a Prison 3-Day retreat for 18-20 year old incarcerated young men. Two weekends later, I was a teacher and chaperone for young men on a ninth grade retreat for those youth from our church ready to make a deeper faith commitment as they enter high school.
Only a couple of years separated the young men age-wise, but life experience- wise? Different planets. The one glaring contrast between the two groups was the involvement in their lives by healthy fathers and/or other male mentor(s), Light years apart.
O, a few of the guys I've spent time with in prison over the years did have dads who mentored them. Stories of how-to jack someone up and rob him, how to steal and not get caught, how to shoot up heroin, are much too common. In those cases, whatever lesson these young men did learn- the few who did have fathers around, or other older male role models- whatever the lesson, obviously the results behind bars are less than stellar.
Now, the young men on the church retreat live no sheltered life in affluent luxury with doting fathers. but what they do have is a dad or other male mentor or two connecting with them in a helpful way.
The kids themselves are similar in many ways, but their upbringing, especially when it comes to fathers, obviously makes a huge difference. While research makes the same point, spending time in prison ministry brings these statistics to life.
Fathers and sons don't deserve this.
They deserve the joy and challenge of living life as "master teacher and apprentice." I want dads, and other adult males who have an opportunity to be a mentor, to make a difference in young men's lives.
The best model for this? Ironically, someone who was not a father. The teaching and model of Jesus as to how to live your life in community. investing in others and expanding their lives in remarkable ways, that's the key. Jesus is the superior teacher and model for fathers and sons (mothers, daughters, and everyone else, too). How to be a father to a son the way that Jesus would if he were in your situation, is a crying need for dads. For the sake of their sons...for the sake of society...
For God's sake.
Why Me?
I have always been interested in mentoring youth. In my teens, I began to teach Sunday School and coach youth basketball. My undergrad degrees are in Psychology and Secondary Education. I went to graduate schooI, received my MDiv and began working as a youth pastor in 1982. By 1991, no longer a "youth pastor," I continued to work with kids and their parents in our Church communities: Congregation, preschool, elementary school, and middle school (where my wife, Nancy, also taught), as well as in the local community as basketball coach and mentor in public schools.
Since 1992, I have done much consulting with a national youth ministry organization,Faithinkubators, in particular working on parenting and connecting parents and kids. I have also developed a relational evangelism DVD series entitled, "How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk!" which has a wide usage by Christian organizations teaching outreach with the next generations. As you saw above, I serve as Spiritual Director at a local prison (California Youth Authority for 18-25 year old young men) where we lead three-day spiritual retreats as part of Epiphany Prison Ministry.
Yet, obviously, my greatest experience and interest in fathers parenting sons is raising our own sons. Nancy and I have a daughter, Kristina, 22, and twin boys, Gregory and David, 19. We have been the key adult mentors in their lives, living in the tension of being pastor, teacher, coach, and both of us volunteers in the public schools they attended, as well as mom and dad. All this without being totally enmeshed. It can be done.
As I stated in my prior launch post, I will be writing a book on fathers and daughters in this "No Jerk" series. So, Kristina, I'm not ignoring our life together, just focusing on the boys right now!
If you read what I am writing in the next several months you will make significant progress in lfie with your son(s). You will learn from the best:
- From the best teacher who ever lived- Jesus.
- From the best of what I have experienced as a son of a father (leaving the less than helpful stuff behind).
- From the best of what I have invested in our sons (sharing my "bonehead" moments, as well),
- From the best of my being a mentor of scores of young men over the years,
- From the best of amazing fathers with whom I have had the privilege of sharing life together.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Another Lesson from Prison- podcast
God sends His people into His world and the distinction between "clergy" and "lay" people fades away. No shackles on the Holy Spirit please! Reflecting on my most recent Epiphany Prison spiritual retreat and how it connects with Acts 6.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Hey Dad! 10 ways to Make Sure Your Son Won't Grow Up to be a Jerk!
As many of you know, I am a pastor in LA who has been blogging for over 7 years now. My main areas of interest have to do with evangelism and discipleship, in particular reaching out to the next generations and training others to do this. My blog, "How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk!" has been a mixture of apologetics, relational evangelism, and discipleship training, with personal lifestyle/ current event type posts interspersed. The overall vibe has been challenging us to look again at what we all "know to be true" from a different angle.
I have been using personal anecdotes and humor (yes, much self-deprecation, of course), following the filter of "sharing the compassion of Jesus with everyone; sharing the gospel with those who are receptive." All of this in, as much as possible, a "no-being-a-jerk" zone.
I have taken a few months off from blogging now, and am ready to begin again. This time however, I am trying an experiment. Here is what it looks like.
My intention has always been working on a "No Jerk" series for Christians, and not stopping at "How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk!" Recently, I am receiving encouragement from writer colleagues to work on another book in the series, specifically on fathers raising sons. They are challenging me to get out the wisdom I have been sharing with them and others over the last several years, and applying it to a book which deals with dads training up their sons.
The result is the book (working title), "Hey Dad! 10 Ways to Make Sure Your Son Won't Grow Up To Be A Jerk!" Through learning from mentors, and my own modeling, sharing life, and teaching my boys about being a "man" (I am not grunting as I typed that), and then working with other fathers and sons over the last three decades of ministry, I come from a strong base of parenting sons. If you have shared life with us, you know this to be true.
In the last several months, I have begun writing the book, but I need help. I need some structure and expectations to keep me moving, and so combining blogging with the writing makes sense. This will help me make progress in being more organized about the whole project, while sharing content and soliciting feedback along the way.
All of this will be written from a filter of the Christian worldview, along the same lines as my "How To Be...Jerk!" work. This certainly makes sense, because the biblical concept of discipleship is the best model out there for dads raising sons. Certainly, as with my other writing, I am paying close attention to make sure that non-Christians will discover this book to be helpful, again, if receptive.
My wife, Nancy and I have three adult children, Kristina, 22, and Gregory and David, twins of 19. I plan on writing a father/ daughter book in this same "Jerk" series, but I am starting with sons because that's where I can be of most service right now.
In the blog, together we will explore these 10 topics (or "Ways") of "jerk prevention":
- Invest lots of time in him
- Treat him as unique; not special
- Be affectionate
- Help him face his fears
- Be an honorable husband
- Be his spiritual mentor
- Have solid friendships
- Model loyalty with integrity
- Help him retire your flaws
- Model how to protect and serve
I intend to publish entries three times a week, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. You will be able to access them through my Twitter and Facebook feeds, along with my website www.danahanson.org.
Thursday, September 08, 2011
In It Together- Podcast
Tuesday, September 06, 2011
The New "Footprints"- podcast
Where is God in our struggles, challenges and suffering? What does "joy" have to do with it all? Who dares retell the classic, "Footprints in the Sand?"
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Putting Jesus to the test- podcast
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
God still heals today?!- podcast
What does it mean to be "holy"?- podcast
The story of Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5) is a wake up call to following a Holy God
Being the Church Together- podcast
The first Christians give a powerful witness to what God does when we live in unity and common vision. The whole world changes!
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Rescue- podcast
It's a rescue operation...When the mission goals of your local church match mission goals for congregations from your mainline Lutheran denomination...Well, there then- based on Acts 4:23-31
Saturday, July 16, 2011
His Truth is Marching On- podcast
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Right Side Up- podcast
The Ways of Jesus turn our lives right side up. The Ways of Jesus turn the world right side up. Why wouldn't you want this to happen?
Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Bringing Fire to the Frontier- podcast
A sermon based on Acts 3. Kudos to Mike Breen for concept.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
This is what I've got...the name of Jesus!- podcast
Under His authority and in His name, the power of Jesus is available. How do we receive it?
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Temple and Home: Building Community-pocast
What we learn from the rhythm of life of the first Christians.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
The Wait is Over...He's Here!- podcast
The Holy Spirit continues the work of Jesus on earth.
Thursday, June 09, 2011
Explaining the Trinity podcast
The Holy Spirit doesn't take the back seat to God the Father or Jesus. Far from it.
The Trinity Explained- podcast
How is God three persons in one and how do you
When the Holy Spirit shows up for good- podcast
We have access to the power of the heavens with the coming of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. What does this mean for the first Christians and what does it mean for us?
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
"The Book of Acts"= "Jesus: Part Two" - podcast
"The Book of Acts", or "The Acts of the Apostles", as it is known, is really, "The Acts and Teachings of Jesus as He Works through His Spirit through His Followers"..."Acts" it is!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
The very best book written about heaven is....
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
what does "gospel" mean?
The word "gospel" comes from the Old English, god+spell, or "good" "word" (think of the word, "spelling"). Now you know where they got the title for the 70's musical, "Godspell."
There are many different ways of expressing the good news. The four main books that record the story of Jesus in the Bible, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, are all called "Gospels," as in "The Gospel according to ..." What each of these Gsopel writers say about the "gospel" is helpful.
Matthew
Matthew doesn't specifically say what he is writing. He starts his book off with a geneology to show the legitimate connection between "Jesus the Messiah," Abraham and King David. Jesus is the one of whom the Jewish people are waiting.
Mark
Mark starts his gospel by specifically stating it is a gospel, or "good words (news)."
"Here begins the Good News about Jesus the Messiah, the Son of God." (New Living Translation)
Luke
Luke is probably writing to a benefactor and/or friend, "Theophilus" ("Lover of God"). Luke gives his reason for writing at the beginning.
"Most honorable Theophilus:
Many people have written accounts about the events that took place among us. They used as their source material the reports circulating among us from the early disciples and other eyewitnesses of what God has done in fullfillment of his promises. Having carefully investigated all of these accounts from the beginning, I have decided to write a careful summmary for you, to reassure you of the truth of all you were taught." (NLT)
John
With John, what is most interesting is how he ends his gospel.
"This is that disciple who saw these events and recorded them here. And we all know that his account of these things is accurate. And I suppose that if all the other things Jesus did were written down, the whole world could not contain the books." (NLT)
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
what does "evangelism" mean?
"Evangelism" comes from the Greek word, euangelion (εὐαγγέλιον), which translates, "good message," or "good news." In the Christian faith, we speak of the good news as the message of Jesus that is recorded in the Bible. We say this is a message sent from God. You can see a clue to this meaning in the very word, "evangelism."
EVANGELISM...
Get it?
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Sometime's, it's all about the question...
"Are you saved?"
"Do you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ?"
"Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Savior?"
"Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?"
Now, which of these questions is actually in the Bible?
Only the last question, from Acts 19:2.
Interesting that the other three questions have been commonly used in various "Evangelism" training resources.
"Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?" Not so common.
Why is this?
Monday, May 16, 2011
Begin Again: Creation and Easter- podcast
It's a whole new world, beginning with the first day of the new creation.
Friday, May 13, 2011
Son Power- Easter podcast
The resurrection of Jesus, the first day of the new creation, and the power that follows- Alleluia
Why Did Jesus Have to Die?- podcast
Can't get any clearer than this...
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Begin Again: Creation and Easter- podcast
It's a whole new world, beginning with the first day of the new creation.
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Son Power- Easter podcast
The resurrection of Jesus, the first day of the new creation, and the power that follows- Alleluia
Monday, May 02, 2011
Why Did Jesus Have to Die?- podcast
Can't get any clearer than this...
There is no confusion about this in Christianity or "What you will never hear from an American President..."
Let me understand...
Last night, President Obama said this. "...we must also reaffirm that the United States is not –- and never will be -– at war with Islam. I’ve made clear, just as President Bush did shortly after 9/11, that our war is not against Islam. Bin Laden was not a Muslim leader; he was a mass murderer of Muslims."
O.K.
Check.
I got it. This is not an Islamic thing.
Then I read this. "After bin Laden was killed in a raid by U.S. forces in Pakistan, senior administration officials said the body would be handled according to Islamic practice and tradition."
All right, now I am confused. I know Osama bin Laden is not a Muslim leader. We've been told this about a million times. Trouble is, no one told him that. For example, here is how he bookends just one of his "talks" to the American people.
"Praise be to Allah who created the creation for his worship and commanded them to be just and permitted the wronged one to retaliate against the oppressor in kind...And Allah is our Guardian and Helper, while you have no Guardian or Helper. All peace be upon he who follows the Guidance."
So, I guess he is a Muslim leader, after all, or at least a leader who is a Muslim. Or at least he thought so. This is confusing.
This kind of confusion can't happen for someone who follows Jesus. A Christian doesn't have any support if he is calling himself a "Christian" and he is using his faith as a blanket criteria to strike out violently against his enemy. Jesus talked about "forgiving your enemy," "praying for your enemy," "turn the other cheek," and all the rest.
Nothing about "retaliating against the oppressor."
Those who followed Jesus followed his lead, and didn't strike out violently against some of the worst oppression the world has ever known: First century Roman Imperialism. In fact, one of the top leaders in the early Christian community, Jesus' right hand man said this, "Honor the emperor." (1 Peter 2:17) (!!)
The fact is, you may call yourself a "Christian" and use violence in the name of your faith, but you don't have any support to do so. Jesus wouldn't claim you as one of his own because the teachings and model of Jesus and the Church he designed forbid using violence in the name of your faith. There is no confusion about this.
(This is not about Christians serving in the armed forces and such. That is another topic. One's faith obviously informs the decisions one makes in life, including being a soldier. But, this is not a criteria of any "Christian" governing system)
That's why it is impossible for there to ever be a Christian nation, or a Christian army, or any such thing. Jesus, and the New Testament Church that followed, didn't leave us with any system of government. In fact, there is no Christian ideology which can be used to rule as governing law.
Now, let me be clear, individual Christians have a system to guide our lives. Its called, "Following Jesus." Sometimes we might even refer to it as law. It is called the "Law of love," based on this teaching of Jesus.
You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.’ And, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” (Luke 10:27)
There is no confusion about the Christian faith on this topic.
That's why you are never going these words coming from an American President.
'...we must also reaffirm that the United States is not –- and never will be -– at war with Christianity.'
Think about this deeply.
Friday, April 29, 2011
How so many "evangelism," "post-modern," "next generation," etc., "experts"- completely miss the obvious...
Yesterday I talked about why 20+ year olds are scarce in churches. The number one reason they aren't in our worshipping communities at its most basic:
"They don't want to hang out with us."
But, why?
Here are the usual suspects given for why "post-modern" young person aren't connected to your churches. There are hundreds of books and thousands of conferences that are basically rehashing most of these "reasons" most of the time.
- Christians are too judgmental
- "Church" is irrelavent
- "Church" is boring
- "Church" is old-fashioned
- "Church" is filled with hypocrites
- Next generation young people are relativistic ('there is no truth"), and so they don't see why they need the exclusive Christian gospel
- Next generation young people don't "join" anything anymore
You could add to this list, but you get the picture. We can make observations about every one of these "reasons," (and who knows, maybe we will...) but they all miss two obvious points.
First, no matter what you do as a congregation, young people are probably not going to show up to your worship services (let alone on your church campus). They don't wake up on a Sunday morning (or Saturday night, for that matter) and suddenly say, "I think I need to go to church."
We do a disservice to the people of our church communities if our "evangelism strategy" solely consists of, "Invite someone to church." We set people up for failure from the beginning, if success means, the people they invite show up.
Now, that's not saying someone will never respond, "OK, I think I will," and then come.
I'm not saying don't invite.
I am saying we live in an age where going to church is not on too many people's radar, let alone people in their 20's! If this hasn't become obvious to you where you live, it's "coming soon to a theatre near you."
No matter how awesome-
the church buildings/ campuses/ worship services/ preachers/ programs/ bands/ dance troupes/ high wire acts/ espresso machines/ manicures and pedicures/ miniature golf courses on campus
are...
no matter how annointed, and how they are the epitome of excellence-
everything you do "in house" is, by default, not going to be very condusive to connecting with potential followers of Jesus.
Again, you may get Christians from other churches to come to yours (even highly devoted young people in their 20's), but real Kingdom expansion?
Not likely.
So, the first obvious point is this:
The "church" goes out to the people.
I mean, if Ariel can figure it out from "Little Mermaid,"
"I wanna be where the people are..."
so must we.
I've got lots more to say about this, and can even witness to what this might look like in your community, but not yet.
The second obvious point? Let's get personal. It's all about you. It's all about me.
Ask yourself this question,
"Am I the kind of person someone wants to hang around with?"
Now, a tougher question,
"Am I the kind of person a non-Christian potential follower of Jesus wants to hang around with?"
Now, even tougher,
"Am I the kind of person a non-Christian potential follower of Jesus in their 20's, wants to hang around with?"
It starts with you, personally. It starts with me.
Unless you are the kind of person someone actually likes, I don't care what you say or do, most people aren't going to spend much time with you.
And because the "church" consists of a bunch of "you's"- that is a challenge.
The reverse is also true.
If someone authentically likes you, if you are someone they actually want to spend time with, that's a huge Kingdom step.
So, how obvious can this be, huh? And how rare anyone actually starts right here at the source.
So, here is tremendous nugget I can give you that has the potential of being an influence for eternity on someone else, even in their 20's:
"Go out to where the people are and be the kind of person someone wants to hang with."
Unless we start with ourselves personally, and unless we get out more, nothing else is really going to matter much in the long run.
Now, give me your $500 evangelism conference fee.
Or, maybe I' ll just give you this for free.
And I've got more...
Thursday, April 28, 2011
the number one reason you don't see 20 year olds in church...
Most of us have seen the statistics of involvement in church communities from a generational standpoint. Something like 4% of all 20-30 year olds attend church on an average weekend across America. 4%.
If you happen to have lots of 20 year olds involved, praise God. Whether they are highly motivated Christian kids who came from other churches and choose to connect with yours instead (that doesn't increase the Kingdom, but at least they are involved), or if the young people in your church were not Christians but have been reached through your community, even better. Yet, the fact is, you can have the most dynamic ministries for the younger generations in the world, and the percentage of those actviely involved still remains the same, 4%.
Why?
Is it about the style of worship services?
Is it the music?
Is it the preaching?
Is it the look of the campus?
Maybe it's all of those reasons. Or, maybe it's none of them.
If we use an "Occam's Razor" approach, where "one should not increase, beyond what is necessary, the number of entities required to explain anything," in other words, "look for the simplest answer," then here goes:
For whatever reason, 20 year olds don't want to hang out with you. At least not hang out with you at worship.
And if you are in your 20's and your church community has lots of 20 year olds, I don't want to ruin the party, but they don't want to hang out with you at worship, either. If they did, it wouldn't be 4%!
So, where do we begin?
Let's check in tomorrow...
the number one reason you don't see 20 year old's in church...
Most of us have seen the statistics of involvement in church communities from a generational standpoint. Something like 4% of all 20-30 year olds attend church on an average weekend across America. 4%.
If you happen to have lots of 20 year olds involved, praise God. Whether they are highly motivated Christian kids who came from other churches and choose to connect with yours instead (that doesn't increase the Kingdom, but at least they are involved), or if the young people in your church were not Christians but have been reached through your community, even better. Yet, the fact is, you can have the most dynamic ministries for the younger generations in the world, and the percentage of those actviely involved still remains the same, 4%.
Why?
Is it about the style of worship services?
Is it the music?
Is it the preaching?
Is it the look of the campus?
Maybe it's all of those reasons. Or, maybe it's none of them.
If we use an "Occam's Razor" approach, where "one should not increase, beyond what is necessary, the number of entities required to explain anything," in other words, "look for the simplest answer," then here goes:
For whatever reason, 20 year olds don't want to hang out with you. At least not hang out with you at worship.
And if you are in your 20's and your church community has lots of 20 year olds, I don't want to ruin the party, but they don't want to hang out with you at worship, either. If they did, it wouldn't be 4%!
So, where do we begin?
Let's check in tomorrow...
A Message for Every Pastor after Easter...
Who was the worship band at the largest Christian worship service ever? I have no idea.
What was the theme of the sermon that day? Don't know.
What was the offering? Why?
What is worship? By definition, "Ascribing worth." Claiming worthiness."
The worthiness of whom? The church? The pastor? The band? the choir?
Worship is about ascribing worth to God.
That's it.
Good to remember for those of you who were disappointed because you didn't see the crowds you wish there would have been this Holy Week and Easter. Your sanctuary wasn't overflowing. I don't take this lightly as some of you are my dear friends. You may not even mention it.
Or, as happened at LIFEhouse, it's good to remember that worship is about Jesus, not how many people show up, when your attendance this last week was bigger than you can remember. More guests than ever. I don't take this lightly because some of those guests were invited by our community, and some sent by God. But, when we talk, I probably won't mention it.
Because, really, for all of us, only two things matter.
1. God is praised.
2. Someone starts a journey to a new life rather than choosing the death of life without God. I'll guarantee that happened everywhere you proclaimed the risen Lord.
So, if you had 10 people in worship or 10,000, Christ is still risen; And that is still a big deal.
Oh, and by he way, American Idol had almost 50 million in attendance last week.
Aw, they probably had better music...
Thursday, April 14, 2011
The largest refugee camp in the world...
The largest refugee camp in the world just turned 20. It is near Dadaab, Kenya, and populated by over 330,000 refugees from the civil war in Somalia. Well, the war is still going on and so the refugees remain. A child born in the camp in the beginning, is now an adult who has never really had a country.
There are millions of refugees in camps all around the world. Why single this one out? The only reason I am singling out this one is because I didn't know it was there. Now I do.
Lord have mercy.
Is Jesus the Messiah?- podcast
Jesus turns the world upside down, but it's not as if we're compl
Wednesday, April 06, 2011
Living in the Present with His Presence- Podcast
Being a follower of Jesus is not about intellectually acknowledging that he is Lord. It is about the life we live. As a follower, our lives are led by the Holy Spirit, based on the teachings and model of Jesus. How we live is a strong witness to the One we follow.
What message is your life teaching others?
Tuesday, April 05, 2011
A Major Essay on Following Jesus in the Public Square Using the Example of Events in Wisconsin...
"Wisconsin." Only two months ago, this word would probably conger up images of people with foam wedges of chedder cheese on their heads, celebrating the glorious run to victory of the World Champion Green Bay Packers. Now, only a short time later, the word, "Wisconsin," evokes a different image. People screaming, looks of rage and hatred on their faces. These aren't Packer fans at a Bear's game, these are teachers and other protestors in Madison, enranged by legislation being considered and enacted, directly related to a shift in political power from Democratics to Republicans in the last election.
The specifics of issues such as a massive budget crisis, public employee unions, collective bargaining and all the rest, are quite complex. Like most key legislation issues, with close examination of what is being debated, you can make a persuasive case from many different perspectives. And though this is about many different public employees, what is happeing in Wisconsin is centered on teachers.
Looking at all the details, you hear about issues of fairness, contracts being broken, budget cuts, layoffs, union dues, state public employee unions that are not represented at the federal level, and such. In the bigger picture view a simple explanation suffices. There has recently been a substantial shift of power from one party (Democratic) to the other (Republican) on the Wisconsin political landscape. This has resulted in legislation that addresses these important issues in a very different way, from the way legislation was enacted by people of the other party when they held the political advantage.
As usual, a reasonable person can make a case for the legislation that is being enacted, and a reasonable person can make a case against it. Such is almost always the way in our system of government. I am not going to focus on the merits of what is being debated. however, but rather wish to focus on the specific acts of protest themselves. A protest that we had seen daily on the national news. I will comment on protest, the bahavior of those protesting, and how this relates to being a follower of Jesus in the public square.
What does all of have to do with following Jesus? This blog deals with many different topics on being a follower of Jesus and living out your faith, in particular in the public square. I could talk about protests in general in other places by other people, but I am not. I'm talking about this particular situation.
You see, 85% of the people of Wisconsin identify themselves as, "Christian", and so, naturally, I am assuming that most of the protestors would identify as "Christans". Considering that less than 1% of Wisconsinites (yes, that's the proper name for it) have any other religious affiliation, I assume the protestors vastly identify as "Christans" with some secular people sprinkled in. As a Christian Bible teacher, I am interested in these events from that perspective. After all, this is the subtext of my blog, How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk. It's all about how we can best live as followers of Jesus in the public square. Also, I will admit, my interests are personal. I have substantial experience at many levels that form my thinking on these events..What follows are the filters through which I am looking.
Obviously I am looking at this from the standpoint of being a Christian. Interesting that 55% of the 85% of the people of Wisconsin who identify as "Christian," come from "Protestant" churches. This very label seems to indicate that "we" (I come out of the "Lutheran" tribe of "Protestants") are not unaware of the use of protest.
I resonate to what is going on for another reason. I am from Wisconsin. Racine, specifically, born and raised, I also happen to be a credentialed teacher (one of my undergrad majors is Secondary Education and I was credentialed in Wisconsin, lapsed, I am sure, after over 30 years!). Over the years, I have been involved both in teaching and administration of a private Christan school, preschool-8th grade. More recently, Nancy and I have been involved in public school work at the high school our children attended. I am married to a school teacher for almost 25 years, and we are the parents of a soon-to-be school teacher, who will get her credential and Masters in Mathematics, a couple of years from now.
So, here's a disclaimer: I have an internal bias toward teachers being treated fairly (yes, I know, like everyone else). I have seen how most teachers work their tails off (yes, I know, like many other professions who work their tails off), giving way more of their lives than simply 8-4, or whatever the on-campus requirement. And, yes, I know, like many other jobs, I don't think the renumeration for teachers reflects adequetely the output so many of them have, as positive influencers in society.
I even have some insider insight into Wisconsin politics over the years, as my best friend back there, is the former chairman of the Democratic Party. With all of this in mind, let's get to the core of the matter.
I think the behavior of many of my brothers and sisters in Christ in this present situation is not a helpful witness for the life lifted up in the New Testament.
I think there are many teachers who aren't thinking through how crucial "imitation" is as a learning tool, along with "information."
What lesson are students learning about working out conflict and how to behave with those with whom you strongly disagree?
What is the lesson students are learning when they see the actions of so many of the protestors? Especially the lesson that is the answer to this question:
"What do you do when you don't get your way?"
It's not about their cause, which I think in many ways is, indeed, compelling, it's about their pubic witness. When I watch the protests, when I listen to what is being said, and I realize that many of those involved are my brothers and sisters in Christ, I am saddened by what I recognize as a radical disconnect with the life of a follower of Jesus.
Try this. Think of the protestors, many of them not only teachers, but Christians, and then ask yourself these questions, only from the perspective of someone who knows nothing of the ways of Jesus.
- How does a follower of Jesus act when they strongly disagree with someone else?
- How does a follower of Jesus act when they think they are being treated unfairly?
- How does a follower of Jesus act when they don't get their way?
Look at what is going on in Wisconsin, and then compare it to the life described below, in Paul's Letter to the Romans..
Romans 12:9-21 (New Living Translation)
9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. 11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. 12 Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. 13 When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.
14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!
17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. 18 Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.
19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,
“I will take revenge;
I will pay them back,”
says the Lord
20 Instead,
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them.
If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap
burning coals of shame on their heads.”
21 Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.
Now, consider this. The most common strategies used today by unions, community organizers, both political parties, etc, are greatly influenced by the writings of Saul Alinsky, in particular, Rules for Radicals. That's life according to"Saul," not "Saul," later known as, "Paul." You may not have heard of Saul Alinsky, but you will definitely recognize his "game plan" being worked out. Tell me if these examples sound familiar, and then look at the following Jesus alternative, from above.
RULE 5: "Ridicule is man's most potent weapon." There is no defense. It's irrational. It's infuriating. It also works as a key pressure point to force the enemy into concessions.
(Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10)
RULE 12: "Pick the target, freeze it, personalize it, and polarize it." Cut off the support network and isolate the target from sympathy. Go after people and not institutions; people hurt faster than institutions.
(Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. Romans 12:18)
Does all of this mean, you can't take a stand in society, protesting what you consider injustice? Does this mean there is no room for dissent? "No," and "No."
It's not about protest, it's about how you protest.
Is being rageful, lashing out against those with whom you disagree, and casting those you consider your enemy in the most disparaging light possible, is this ever lifegiving behavior for a follower of Jesus?
Never.
So then, is all of this Jesus stuff just a naiive fairly tale way of living, completely irrelevant to the "real" world? Hardly.
Consider, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
His leadership was influential in bringing about radical change in America, as well as other places around the world. Dr. King specifically called much of "White America" to repentance, calling those who identified as "Christians," back to Jesus. Dr. King did this in such a way that the emphasis was on the good that will come about working together. He did it in a way that focused on the benefit for everyone.
Read some of his writings. About as gracious as you can get concerning those who oppose him. While he would strongly disagree, you see how he treated even the most hate-filled people, with dignity..
Listen to some of his speeches and watch film clips of some of his protests. Overwhelmingly inspiring, rather than confrontational and demeaning of those who bitterly oppose him. Listen to the tone of his voice and look at the expressions on his face. You see determination. You see respect.You see peace. What you don't see is a hint of rage, hatred, or contempt.
All and all, Dr. King's strategy, born out of the New Testament community, appears to work...And why wouldn't it work?
Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Romans 12:17
Even if your opponent isn't honorable.
Even if you think you will just die if you don't get your way.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
How did Jesus win by losing?- podcast
Unlike the first temptation of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, the temptation of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane ushers in the new way. Jesus refuses to give in to Satan's temptation and walk away from the cross. Jesus will not stray, clearing the way back to God, again. It's about winning by losing.[[posterous-content:pid___0]]
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
How did Jesus win by losing?- podcast
Unlike the first temptation of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, the temptation of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane ushers in the new way. Jesus refuses to give in to Satan's temptation and walk away from the cross. Jesus will not stray, clearing the way back to God, again. It's about winning by losing.
Someone else's job
I was driving from a funeral, back to the family's home today.
My friend Ken died after a long battle with cancer. He lost that battle, but he won the war because he is free of sickness and suffering. He is with the Lord, and in God's dimension, a new man.
Ken was a hardworking carpet guy.
I have no idea how many miles of carpet he laid in his lifetime, but I do know it is about as tough of a job physically as there is. Back, knees, fingers, joints in general, you name it, carpet takes its toll.
And Ken was good at what he did. I watched him a few times over the years and he was an artist. "Had an eye for what he was doing," you might say. He never complained but,
it was hard work.
Ken isn't laying carpet anymore. He is resting in the arms of Jesus. And wouldn't you know it, that message was made quite clear today. You see, driving back, I found myself following a truck. Look at what the truck is hauling.
You've got to be kidding.
A truck full of carpet padding!
Saturday, March 19, 2011
New Life Is Here!- podcast
Jesus announces direct relationship with God is made possible through him. A declaration of freedom from all that separates us is made in Holy Communion.
Friday, March 11, 2011
Why you don't want to follow your heart - podcast
How do people find meaning and purpose in their lives? The difference between following the model of Jesus and his teachings and any other source is the difference between living life as He designed it or living life on our own based on systems or thinking He didn't design. Not a difficult choice.
Wednesday, March 09, 2011
my own worst enemy- what can I do?- podcast
If I am my own worst enemy and the Enemy is always ready to take advantage of that, then what hope do I have?
None, without Jesus
Monday, March 07, 2011
my own worst enemy- what can I do?- podcast
If I am my own worst enemy and the Enemy is always ready to take advantage of that, then what hope do I have?
None, without Jesus
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Destiny: Our purpose in God's plan from the beginning-podcast
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Understanding the Bible is all about our relationship with God and our responsibility toward God. From the beginning...
Destiny: Our purpose in God's plan from the beginning-podcast
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Understanding the Bible is all about our relationship with God and our responsibility toward God. From the beginning...
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Covenant and Kingdom Week Six: Jesus, Paul and the Church- podcast
LIFEhouse, we are a Covenant community given the mission of extending the Kingdom of our Father.
People will experience the future that is heaven in us today.
That is what it means to be the church.
You've got to be kidding!
Nancy and I went to several high school basketball games this year watching Notre Dame of Sherman Oaks. One of our "kids," Cole Kievit, plays for ND and finished the season on a real upswing.Then disaster struck!
It seems the CIF still uses fax machines for official correspondence. There was a snafu last week when all the pages for application for postseason tournament play weren't received. A screw up in the fax. Even made ABC news. Granted, Notre Dame didn't follow up to make sure the whole fax was received and the CIF doesn't keep track of who's who in possible qualifying teams. What a fiasco all the way around.
Well, I know Cole will survive. Like other seniors, I'm sure it is a huge disappointment (haven't talked to him, yet), but also, like other seniors, he's probably thinking about college applications, and such. With graduation just around the corner, there are lots of things to think about. Keep your head up, Cole, you had a great year!
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Friday, February 11, 2011
Covenant and Kingdom Week Six: Jesus and the Cross- podcast
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The pinnacle of Covenant and Kingdom- Victim and Victory of Jesus
Saturday, February 05, 2011
Thursday, February 03, 2011
Covenant and Kingdom Week Four: Temptations of Jesus- podcast
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Tuesday, February 01, 2011
IMPACT! 8TH GRADE GIRLS MISSION PROJECT- TOOTHBRUSHES AND TOOTHPASTE
The 8th Grade girls IMPACT! group is collecting items for gift baskets to be handed out to those in need. This week they are gathering...TOOTHBRUSHES AND TOOTHPASTE!
Covenant and Kingdom Week Four: Temptations of Jesus- podcast
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Thursday, January 27, 2011
Covenant and Kingdom Week Three: Moses- podcast
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God and Man as Kingdom partners. Working together to expand God's rule.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
circumcision or no circumcision, that is the question...
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Covenant and Kingdom- Week Two/ Joseph- podcast
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The key reality of one who follows Jesus:
As we move from the center of our own little universe to the edge, then Jesus can rule on the throne of our hearts. From there, our hearts become a window to heaven for those around us.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Covenant and KIngdom- Week One/ Abraham and Sarah- podcast
What does it mean to, "Walk as children of God?"
Week One in the series, Covenant and Kingdom, based on the book, Covenant and Kingdom, by Mike Breen.Readings:
Covenant and Kingdom: Creation through Abraham―pages 3–38.
Bible Reading: Genesis 15, 17, 22.
Thursday, January 06, 2011
The miracle of what is happening within you
Wednesday, January 05, 2011
Bollywood afternoon...
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